So, I was just in a fight with my friend before I got here. Ex-friend. Fuck her. She was fucking my ex behind my back. For WEEKS. While I was talking about getting back together with him, and the WHOLE TIME he was fucking her and both of them just lied to my face!
That wasn't even the worst thing he did, either. But I don't even care about him. It hurts worse that my friend could do that to me. I trusted her.
She said I'm not good for him. And he's not good for me. And we should be with people who are passionate about us. I don't think that's why she did it, though.
I don't fucking know. If I knew, I wouldn't still be this fucked up about it. I would NEVER do that to her. How could she do that to me?? We were supposed to be best friends. :( I don't get it. :( :( :(
[ She wishes this thing made real emojis, like good ones, but what can you do? ]
Unfortunately, some friendships aren't meant to last. It's a really shitty way to find out, I won't say it isn't, but this just means you're going to be a lot stronger without her.
[ If you had asked Maddy beforehand, this is exactly what she would have told you she was hoping somebody would say to her. So why, then, does her heart sink, seeing this? It's not like she doesn't have way bigger problems right now. But it still hurts, even though she knows Taissa is probably right. ]
Yea I know. But it's just hard. We've been best friends since we were kids. And I know she's fucked up because of how her dad was. I used to stay at her house all the time. Have you ever had a friend do something like that to you?
Not to me. But when I was a teenager, I watched my friend Shauna's relationship with her best friend blow up over something like this. [Never mind that Shauna participated in the cheating in that scenario.]
Maybe sometimes we have to lose a person to find more of ourselves. I think she came out better from it.
[ It's fine. Samantha also participated in cheating, and Maddy likes her. ] Really? That's what one of my friends back home said. Or I don't know if she's a friend. She's the mom of a little boy I baby-sit for. But she said the same thing, that she lost a friend over something like this, except it was in college instead of high school.
You think so? [ How depressing. ] How did your friend move on and get better?
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So, I was just in a fight with my friend before I got here. Ex-friend. Fuck her. She was fucking my ex behind my back. For WEEKS. While I was talking about getting back together with him, and the WHOLE TIME he was fucking her and both of them just lied to my face!
That wasn't even the worst thing he did, either. But I don't even care about him. It hurts worse that my friend could do that to me. I trusted her.
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Did she give you an explanation?
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She said I'm not good for him. And he's not good for me. And we should be with people who are passionate about us. I don't think that's why she did it, though.
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Why do you think she actually did it?
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I don't fucking know. If I knew, I wouldn't still be this fucked up about it. I would NEVER do that to her. How could she do that to me?? We were supposed to be best friends. :( I don't get it. :( :( :(
[ She wishes this thing made real emojis, like good ones, but what can you do? ]
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Yea I know.
But it's just hard.
We've been best friends since we were kids.
And I know she's fucked up because of how her dad was.
I used to stay at her house all the time.
Have you ever had a friend do something like that to you?
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Maybe sometimes we have to lose a person to find more of ourselves. I think she came out better from it.
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You think so? [ How depressing. ] How did your friend move on and get better?